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For most people trying to find love, modern dating feels like a giant hot mess. I’ve written about the ways it can go wrong. Rushing. Love bombing. Ambiguity. Ghosting. Confusion
When people talk about love bombing, there is usually a clear villain. It’s the person who comes in hot, makes big promises, talks about forever on date three… and then
Since apparently dating now requires a field guide, I recently shared my glossary of modern ghosts. We laughed as we categorized the slow faders, the hauntstagrammers, and the almost-boyfriends who
If you’ve ever thought, I’m not alone, but I feel alone, you’re not imagining it. And you’re not the only one. One of the things I hear most often from
In modern dating, things seem to be going one of two ways: too much, too fast or too little, too unclear. While love bombing overwhelms with intensity, ghosting someone destabilizes
Lately, I’ve noticed how often conversations about dating turn into debates about love bombing — what it is, what it isn’t, and how easily the term gets applied. We’re told
After my divorce, learning how to date again was… bumpy.Educational. Humbling. And occasionally unhinged. (More on that in a future blog.) One of the biggest things that held me back
If your New Year’s intentions are already feeling harder than you expected, here’s some good news: that doesn’t mean you’re failing. It usually means the system you’re using isn’t supporting
I recently shared one of my favorite brain hacks for building new habits: temptation bundling. Specifically, how I trained myself to meditate daily by only letting myself drink my sacred